Massage: Expanding on Emotional Therapy Expanding on Emotional Therapy Treating the whole person with massage.

A holistic mind-body-spirit view

In a couples counseling session we often hear people relate their reaction to uncovering a memory with the words, “I can feel it right here,” as they point to a specific spot in their body. To help address the physical stresses and previous physical memories held by your body, Littleton Couples Counseling combines massage with traditional couples counseling.

Some issues that inspire a person to seek psychotherapy encompass a combination of mind, body, and spirit. Many sexual struggles or body image problems individuals and couples encounter consist of more than solely emotional components and often stem from physical memories held by the body. In a similar vein, massage can trigger painful memories that have been stored in the body and cause emotions to surface on the table.

Synergizing talk and touch

In regards to couples counseling and sex therapy, Colorado is a no-touch state. That means a psychotherapist cannot touch their patients. This regulation may cause a schism in a holistic treatment of the client’s inner mind-body-spirit relationship, especially when emotions or memories involve the body. Touch can be an essential part of the healing process.

Massage therapists offer so much in terms of decreasing physical stress, increasing serotonin and dopamine, modeling and teaching consent and safe touch, and improving feelings around body acceptance.

Academic studies have shown that psychotherapy and massage therapy are effective treatments for depression and anxiety. Littleton Couples Counseling brings talk therapy and massage therapy together. Client consent enables our providers to share insight and communicate treatment strategies, allowing the therapists to assist in the client’s treatment that achieve more than either modality can achieve on its own.

“To be kind is more important than to be right.” —Buddha

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Communities we serve

We use massage to expand emotional and talk therapy by treating the whole person. Littleton Couples Counseling serves the communities of Lakewood, Englewood, Denver, DTC, Highlands Ranch, Castle Pines, Castle Rock, Evergreen, Morrison, Greenwood Village, Cherry Creek, and surrounding areas. We hold the hand of hope until it can walk by itself.


Marriage & Couples Counseling, Sex Therapy Our Clinicians Make The Difference

Why Choose an Integrated Therapist?

As integrated therapists, we are present in the session and curious to what you’re experiencing. We focus on marriage counseling, couples counseling, sex therapy and foster a nonjudgmental, compassionate, and supportive environment where you can safely explore communication styles, develop connections, and learn to express your needs. We help you develop the tools to grow closer to your partner. Creative Continuum Coaching & Counseling understands the nuances required for successful sex therapy, marriage counseling, and couples counseling.

Chris Wilhoite is a sex therapist and couples therapist.

Chris Wilhoite MS, LMFT-S, CST, C-PST

Certified Psychosexual Therapist

Chris Wilhoite believes in couples. When she lost her husband to cancer in 2006, she promised herself she would do everything in her power to allow couples the opportunity to stay together and build a stronger relationships. Couples are made of individuals, and individuals have different needs. Chris is an extensively trained couples counselor, Certified Psychosexual Therapist with the International Association of Psychosexual Therapists, an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and an AAMFT Approved Supervisor in training. She presented her thesis, The role of body image and sexual shame in women’s sexual dysfunction, at the 2024 IAPST International Conference on Sex Therapy.

Creative Continuum Counseling helps couples grow closer together

Tommy Underhill TTCD, ASDI, ASDCS

Founder, Sex, Adult ADHD & Adult Autism

As a person with AuDHD, Tommy gets it. He specializes in working with adults and executives with ADHD and autism. His training in neurophysiological approaches for social, relational, and sexual issues provides the framework for coaching people across the country. Tommy oversees the long-term and strategic management for Creative Continuum Counseling. His entrepreneurship and small business management and operations spans more than 30 years. He is a Founding member of the International Association of Psychosexual Therapists and Editor-in-Chief of the International Journal of Psychosexual Therapy. Tommy presented his research on What every mental health professional needs to know about sex and autism at the 2024 IAPST International Conference on Sex Therapy.

Creative Continuum Counseling helps couples grow closer together

Korra

Compassionate Therapy Dog

People will tell a dog things they would never feel comfortable telling another human.Korra brings a lifetime of experience helping people who live with anxiety and depression feel more comfortable in their body. She specializes in working with people who need a calming influence in their lives.

Couples counseling can help couples grow closer together

Mālie

ADHD Therapy Dog

Mālie (may-lee-uh) in Hawaiian is to be calm or experience serenity and often helps us in the counseling room, just not quite in the way we expected. She is a bundle of loving energy and excels in helping ADHD/ADD people reach threshold and experience more peace and focus.

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Questions Answered At a Glance

Discover what makes therapy work

What makes sex therapy different from “normal” therapy?

Sex therapy is a type of psychotherapy that focuses specifically on communication, relationships, intimacy, and sex. We often discuss low libido, desire discrepancy, painful intercourse, non-traditional relationships, orgasm difficulties, and sexual preferences.

What is sex therapy?

Sex therapy is a form of talk therapy that helps people deal with sexual problems and improve their sexual health and well-being. It’s important because we’re all sexual beings, and our mental health can affect our sexual desire and pleasure. Sex therapy can help people talk about uncomfortable things about sex, intimacy, and communication, but it’s important to remember that many sexual health problems could be solved if people talked openly about sex and their experiences.

Are you comfortable talking about ethical non-monagomy (ENM)?

Yes. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a relationship style that focuses on honesty, openness, and mutual agreement when it comes to having multiple romantic or sexual partners. Whether you’re just starting to think about this idea or have been curious for a while, ethical non-monogamy can be a really liberating way to love and connect. But it’s important to know that this lifestyle might not be right for everyone. That’s totally okay. The real question is, does ENM fit with your values and emotional needs?

Can you help with struggles with sex and religion?

You might be confused about why feelings about sex are so tough when you believe “God made us as we are.” This struggle and doubt can make you feel even more ashamed and alone from your partner. You might even wonder if you’re going through religious sexual trauma, even though you were never physically abused in the church. This unwanted religious sexual dysfunction can strain your intimate relationships, and it might make the pain, guilt, and shame you’ve been carrying since you were a kid even worse. We can help.

Are our sexual wants normal?

It can be tough to figure out what’s “normal” when it comes to sex, because everyone’s different. Instead of trying to fit in with what others think is “normal,” it’s more important to listen to your own body and mind. Think about what makes you feel good and what you’ve been wanting lately. Comparing yourself to others or to porn can make you feel bad about yourself, but if you’re struggling with your sexual identity, know that you’re not alone.

My partner and I have mismatched desire. Are we normal?

A common concern is the struggle with low libido or decreased arousal. Many people experience fluctuations in their sexual desire—often due to medical conditions, stress, or other underlying factors. If your current arousal levels differ significantly from the past or from your partner, discussing it with one of our certified psychosexual therapists can help alleviate anxiety and provide guidance on how to address the issue.

How do I know when it’s time to talk to someone about my sexual issues?

If you’ve been looking for info about sex therapy and common sexual concerns, you’ve already taken a huge step towards acknowledging your worries. If your concerns keep you up a night, talking to a sex therapist could give you some clarity and help you find solutions.