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Introducing our newest therapist, Claudia Erek

I want to invite you along the journey as Littleton Couples Counseling grows. Instead of growth for the sake of growth, I have searched out an associate who will bring her own spirit and style to the Littleton Couples Counseling technique. Help me welcome Claudia Erek. Claudia joins us from private practice and provides individual counseling.

At the heart of Claudia’s practice is her genuine desire to provide each client with a 100% judgement-free zone. Her primary goal is for you to be able to express yourself freely without any fear of judgement. “Healing takes place when you are able to be open, honest, and vulnerable," she says. Claudia wants to provide you with a safe, emotional space where you will feel comfortable, relaxed, and know that you are being heard.

Believe Claudia when she says that “anything is possible,” as she has witnessed clients overcome trauma, grief, depression, anxiety, and hardcore drug addiction. Often, our feelings of shame, guilt, hurt, resentment, and fear rob us of the opportunity to experience true joy and fulfillment in our lives. Do you find yourself running away from these feelings, pushing them down or fighting against them? Instead, Claudia can help you embrace them and work through them. “It is through this process of transformation where my clients learn to find acceptance, meaning and purpose,” she says. “This leads to living with self-authenticity, and this is when you experience true joy and fulfillment.”

Claudia helps clients set boundaries around how they treat themselves and how they allow others to treat them. She empowers people to know themselves, find joy in themselves, rewrite the stories they tell themselves, and reconstruct internal narratives. “I work with people to make life an ally instead of a roadblock.” To do so, she applies a strength-based, compassion-focused therapy approach.



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Tommy Underhill TTCD, ASDCS, ASDI Sex, Adult ADHD & Adult Autism

Tommy specializes in working with adults with ADHD and autism through a neurophysiological lens for social, relational, and sex issues. He oversees the long-term and strategic management for Littleton Couple’s Counseling. His entrepreneurship and small business management and operations span more than 30 years. Tommy is the Editor-in-Chief of the International Journal of Psychosexual Therapy. In his spare time, he runs a halfway house for wayward and abused orchids.

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Questions Answered At a Glance

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What makes sex therapy different from “normal” therapy?

Sex therapy is a type of psychotherapy that focuses specifically on communication, relationships, intimacy, and sex. We often discuss low libido, desire discrepancy, painful intercourse, non-traditional relationships, orgasm difficulties, and sexual preferences.

What is sex therapy?

Sex therapy is a form of talk therapy that helps people deal with sexual problems and improve their sexual health and well-being. It’s important because we’re all sexual beings, and our mental health can affect our sexual desire and pleasure. Sex therapy can help people talk about uncomfortable things about sex, intimacy, and communication, but it’s important to remember that many sexual health problems could be solved if people talked openly about sex and their experiences.

Are you comfortable talking about ethical non-monagomy (ENM)?

Yes. Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is a relationship style that focuses on honesty, openness, and mutual agreement when it comes to having multiple romantic or sexual partners. Whether you’re just starting to think about this idea or have been curious for a while, ethical non-monogamy can be a really liberating way to love and connect. But it’s important to know that this lifestyle might not be right for everyone. That’s totally okay. The real question is, does ENM fit with your values and emotional needs?

Can you help with struggles with sex and religion?

You might be confused about why feelings about sex are so tough when you believe “God made us as we are.” This struggle and doubt can make you feel even more ashamed and alone from your partner. You might even wonder if you’re going through religious sexual trauma, even though you were never physically abused in the church. This unwanted religious sexual dysfunction can strain your intimate relationships, and it might make the pain, guilt, and shame you’ve been carrying since you were a kid even worse. We can help.

Are our sexual wants normal?

It can be tough to figure out what’s “normal” when it comes to sex, because everyone’s different. Instead of trying to fit in with what others think is “normal,” it’s more important to listen to your own body and mind. Think about what makes you feel good and what you’ve been wanting lately. Comparing yourself to others or to porn can make you feel bad about yourself, but if you’re struggling with your sexual identity, know that you’re not alone.

My partner and I have mismatched desire. Are we normal?

A common concern is the struggle with low libido or decreased arousal. Many people experience fluctuations in their sexual desire—often due to medical conditions, stress, or other underlying factors. If your current arousal levels differ significantly from the past or from your partner, discussing it with one of our certified psychosexual therapists can help alleviate anxiety and provide guidance on how to address the issue.

How do I know when it’s time to talk to someone about my sexual issues?

If you’ve been looking for info about sex therapy and common sexual concerns, you’ve already taken a huge step towards acknowledging your worries. If your concerns keep you up a night, talking to a sex therapist could give you some clarity and help you find solutions.